Breslov English N'Shei

The Ben Melech
That Was Exchanged

A small circle of women learning one story together.

There is a story Rebbe Nachman tells of a prince and a servant's child who were exchanged at birth. Each one grew up living the other's life — until something inside them began to whisper that this isn't who I am.

We are going to sit with this story for six weeks. Slowly. Together. Not as a class. As a circle.

When we gather

  • Begins Tuesday, June 2
  • Rhythm Six Tuesdays · 11:00 AM
  • Place Livna 2
  • Given by Esty Singer, from Yerushalayim

Why now

The seats are limited on purpose. A circle only works if it stays small — if the same faces come back week after week. After June 2 the circle closes. If something in you is being called to this, don't let it pass quietly. Save your place now.

What we'll learn together

One story. Six movements.

Week 1

The Swap & the Servant's Son

The exchange, the inherited life, and the first stirring of remorse.

Living as someone we were never meant to be. The ache of injustice — and then the turn: if Hashem allowed this, how can I keep behaving this way?

Week 2

The Dream & the Forest

Listening to the inner voice and crossing into the unknown.

The ben melech heeds the dream and takes the first job. The merchant's cruelty, the thick forest, the man in the tree, the forest man and the bag of bread — while the ben shifchah sells himself as a slave for that same loaf.

Week 3

The House in the Forest & the Song

From terror to delight.

The howling of the animals gives way to a hidden song. The forest man hands him the instrument and points him toward the city.

Week 4

Meivin Davar mitoch Davar

Becoming one who understands one thing from another.

A new faculty awakens — reading reality itself, hearing what's underneath what's said.

Week 5

The Garden & the Statue

Feeling chased, and placing the statue at the center.

The garden you cannot rest in. The act of setting the statue at its heart, and what shifts when a hunted soul finds its center.

Week 6

The Correction of the Throne

The throne sings. The truth is recognized.

The throne is set right and its song returns. At last he knows: I am the true ben melech, and you are the true ben shifchah. Coming home — but changed.

Your weekly assignment

A short summary, and a few questions to sit with — for your journal or for our circle.

Week 1

Write about a place in your life where you sense you've been living a role that was never really yours.

Sit with these

  • Where do I feel like I'm wearing someone else's life?
  • When have I felt the ache of injustice — and what did I do with it?
  • If Hashem allowed this exact situation, what is it asking of me now?
Week 2

Recall a "dream" — an inner nudge — you once heeded, and a forest you had to cross because of it.

Sit with these

  • What inner voice am I currently ignoring?
  • What "bread" have I sold a piece of myself for?
  • Who has been a forest-man for me — someone who appeared when I was most lost?
Week 3

Notice a fear that has, over time, turned (or could turn) into a song.

Sit with these

  • What howling am I living next to right now?
  • Where is the hidden delight underneath it?
  • What "instrument" has been placed in my hands that I haven't yet picked up?
Week 4

Track one moment this week where you understood something underneath what was being said or shown.

Sit with these

  • What is reality whispering to me that I usually talk over?
  • Whose words am I taking only at face value?
  • What would change if I trusted what I sense beneath the surface?
Week 5

Name the "garden" you cannot rest in — and the statue you would place at its center.

Sit with these

  • Where do I feel chased, even in places meant to be mine?
  • What would it mean to set something true at the center of that place?
  • What in me quiets when I stop running?
Week 6

Write the sentence the throne would sing about you, if it could.

Sit with these

  • Where am I beginning to recognize who I really am?
  • What needs to be "set right" for that song to return?
  • What does coming home — but changed — look like for me?

The weekly rhythm

  • A short writing assignment

    Half a page, not an essay. The depth comes from honesty, not length.

  • A tiny daily practice

    Small on purpose. Real change happens in the in-between moments.

  • Our Tuesday gathering

    Live, in the room, 11:00 AM at Livna 2.

Recordings & our members' space

Every session is recorded. Members get a private space to listen back, post their thoughts, ask questions, and continue the conversation between Tuesdays.

Once you've RSVP'd, you'll receive an invite code to create your members account.

Save my seat

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