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Chochom and Tam

Eight weeks with Rebbe Nachman's story. A different way to live your everyday life.

With Esty Singer, move beyond endless comparison and “not good enough” toward temimus, simchah, and yishuv hadaas. Learn the story, reflect honestly, and bring one small, practical change into your home each week.

Mondays · October 12–November 30, 2026 · Sanhedria

Shiur 11:30 AM–12:30 PM · Q&A and takeaways until 1:00 PM
VIP movement with Yehudis Danan 10:45–11:30 AM

Explore the Eight Weeks

Missed the opening class? You can still join. Your next step can begin now.

Less proving. More presence. More taam in the life you already have.

You give so much to your family, your home, and your Yiddishkeit. Why does it still feel as though you should be doing more?

In Rebbe Nachman's Chochom and Tam, two friends take very different paths. One keeps searching for something better; the other learns to work, appreciate, and grow from where he is. Their story brings our own habits into focus — the comparison, the second-guessing, and the joy we keep postponing.

This journey is not about abandoning wisdom or pretending life is easy. It is about building the vessels to hold wisdom: humility, truthful thought, gratitude, tefillah, and steady action. We begin through Likutei Moharan I:49 and carry those questions into the story and into real life.

Each Monday, take one teaching beyond the shiur: a decision you can make, a kinder sentence you can say, a moment of appreciation you can notice. Small enough to practise. Meaningful enough to matter.

The Journey Has Begun. You Can Still Step In.

After the yomim tovim, it is easy to pull the blanket over your head and slip back into familiar patterns. Or you can stay awake to what Rebbe Nachman's story is asking of you — and learn how to bring it into your life.

The opening class was October 12. The next shiur is Monday, October 19. If you missed the first step, do not let that become the reason you miss the next seven. Join a deliberately small circle of women learning, asking, and practising together.

You do not need to become a different person by Monday. Just make room for one different choice.

First three private coaching places: Taken. Course enrollment is still open.

When “Better” Never Feels Good Enough

You dream of the perfect Shabbos table, the flawless davening, the perfectly behaved children. Yet the pursuit of “perfect” often leaves you feeling anything but.

Comparison steals your joy

You look around and that quiet voice whispers, ‘I'm not enough.’ The beautiful taam of your Yiddishkeit feels distant.

Exhaustion replaces connection

Your mind races with ‘shoulds’ and ‘musts,’ leaving you disconnected from your family, your prayers, and your own soul.

Perfectionism blocks the taam

When every effort becomes another thing to judge, there is little room to appreciate what is already good or begin the next step calmly.

“Rebbe Nachman teaches that one should strive for the highest and be happy with the lowest.”

But how do we actually live that way — especially when we feel the gap?

The Program

From the Story to Your Kitchen Table

Authentic • Healthy • Enjoyable • Alive • Delighted — with the right daas

A shiur is only the beginning. Together, we turn the teaching into choices you can practise in your davening, your relationships, and the ordinary moments of your day.

Notice the thought. Ask what is true. Choose a response. Take one manageable step. Each week brings a new part of the story, space for your questions, and a practice to carry home — not another demand to get everything right.

Choose a truthful thought

Notice comparison or self-criticism, then name one honest, constructive thought you can act on.

Embrace micro-steps

Choose one action you can repeat, rather than waiting for the perfect mood or a complete plan.

Cultivate Yishuv Hadaas

Pause before reacting. Give yourself room to respond with more clarity and less urgency.

Live the Taam with simplicity

Name something specific to appreciate in your effort, your family, or your avodas Hashem.

The weekly curriculum

Eight Mondays. A Story That Meets You Where You Are.

Follow the Chochom and Tam from their first choices to the King's summons and beyond. Each week pairs the teaching with reflection and a practical takeaway from your course workbook.

Week 1 · October 12 · 1 Cheshvan

Two Boys, Two Natures

Begin with the two friends and the opening of the story. Through Likutei Moharan I:49, explore chochmah, temimus, tzimtzum, and the vessels that allow wisdom to become lived daas.

Bring it home: Choose one truthful thought and turn it into a short tefillah and a manageable action.

Week 2 · October 19 · 8 Cheshvan

The Chochom Goes Out

When does exploring help us find our place — and when does it keep us from choosing? Identify your strengths, responsibilities, and personal niche without demanding perfect certainty.

Bring it home: Set a decision point. Try one small step instead of researching every possible future.

Week 3 · October 26 · 15 Cheshvan

The Shoemaker’s Joy

Learn from the Tam's relationship with his work. Separate healthy improvement from constant flaw-finding, appreciate real effort, and make space for simchah without denying difficulty.

Bring it home: Name one specific good in your work today, even while there is still room to improve.

Week 4 · November 2 · 22 Cheshvan

“Only Without Mockery”

Distinguish useful correction from contempt. Explore the inner critic, respectful boundaries, and educating ourselves and our children with dignity and machshavos tovos.

Bring it home: Replace a sweeping criticism with one kind, specific sentence about what can be repaired.

Week 5 · November 9 · 29 Cheshvan

The Reunion

Bring the story into shalom bayis. Meet the real person rather than the image in your mind; separate facts from assumed motives and express needs with respect.

Bring it home: Ask one honest question before assuming what someone else meant.

Week 6 · November 16 · 6 Kislev

The King’s Summons

What happens when an invitation asks us to grow? Explore emunah, teachability, and responsible discernment — receiving more without needing to control every detail.

Bring it home: Take one responsible next step with a question still unanswered. Temimus is not gullibility.

Week 7 · November 23 · 13 Kislev

The Chochom’s Denial

Recognize the difference between a question seeking truth and an argument that allows no answer. Notice rationalization and bring thought, speech, and action back into alignment.

Bring it home: Notice one excuse that keeps you stuck. Say what is true and choose a small action that follows it.

Week 8 · November 30 · 20 Kislev

The Bog and the Awakening

Complete the story with compassion, the willingness to receive help, and the freedom to let go of being right. Gather the vessels of humility, truth, tefillah, gratitude, and action.

Bring it home: Choose a simple rhythm you can continue after the course. A missed step is a place to return, not the end.

You do not need to have it all figured out before you join. Come with your questions — and a willingness to begin.

Support for the Shiur — and the Days Between

8 Weekly In-Person Sessions

Engaging, interactive classes with direct guidance, a close-knit community, and a genuine sichas chaveirim experience.

Session Recordings

Available for a limited time post-program so you can review and integrate at your own pace.

Comprehensive Workbook

Practical exercises, reflection prompts, and integration plans for every week.

Temimus Micro-Step Sheets

Short, actionable prompts to keep your Taam practice alive each week.

Quieting the Medamah Toolkit

Immediate tools to reframe negative self-talk and find inner peace.

Private Community Access

A supportive, non-judgmental space to share, ask questions, and connect with like-minded Breslov women.

Real Women. Real Transformation.

“I Never Believed This Could Be Me”

From women who attended the previous cohort of Ben Melech and Ben Shifchah Exchanged — not perfection, not pressure, but quiet, joyful freedom in their own homes.

“For the first time in my life, I catch the medamah in the act. That voice starts up — 'you're failing, look at her' — and instead of drowning in it, I notice it. I name it. And I don't punish myself anymore. The relief is indescribable.”
Anonymous
“I learned to separate my real self from my inner critic. They are not the same. Once I saw that, the whole heaviness lifted. I finally have room to breathe inside my own home.”
C. W. · Yerushalayim
“I accept myself now — and because of that, I accept my husband and my children. I see who they actually are, without the judgement. I'm not trying to fix everyone anymore.”
Anonymous · Married over 20 years
“The biggest surprise? I enjoy my family. I find them amusing. The very things that used to make me tense now make me smile. My home has a taam it never had before.”
F. L. · Mother of 4
“I came in exhausted from striving. I left with yishuv hadaas. Nothing in my circumstances changed — everything in how I experience them did.”
C. F. · Sanhedria
“This is the Rebbe's derech made practical. Small steps, real life, every single day. I wish I had found this years ago.”
M. E.
“Thank you for giving over your wisdom and sharing your soul these past few months. It was amazing and so transformational, and you had a huge part in that. Thanks for making space for my big soul and big ego ;)”
Anonymous
“Dear Esty, I can't thank you enough for all the wonderful things you have taught me. Hashem should repay you and you should have a lechtiga sweet new year and a כתיבה וחתימה טובה!”
Anonymous · mother and teacher

If you just read those words and thought, “I want that. I need that.” — that is your own neshamah recognizing what is possible for you.

Choose the Way You'd Like to Join

Join the eight-week course with the Core shiur or the VIP movement-and-shiur morning. The free monthly community shiur is a separate offering, not enrollment in this series.

A Taste of Taam

Free Monthly Community Shiur

Free

Once a month · 60–75 minutes

A single, inspiring in-person shiur with Q&A — one powerful teaching of Rebbe Nachman on joy and calm, plus one practical micro-step for the month.

  • Monthly in-person shiur with live Q&A
  • A short teaching from the Chacham & Taam story
  • One actionable micro-step for the month
  • A beautifully designed takeaway handout
  • Warm, welcoming community of Breslov women
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The Taam Life Journey

Core Program · Shiur Only

$197

8 Mondays from Oct 12 · 11:30 AM–12:30 PM · Q&A until 1:00 PM

The full 8-week spiritual curriculum for women who want deep guidance in living Rebbe Nachman's Torah with joy and simplicity.

  • 8 weekly shiurim: 11:30 AM–12:30 PM, Q&A & takeaways until 1:00 PM
  • Session recordings for a limited time
  • Comprehensive workbook & action guides
  • Weekly Temimus micro-steps practice sheets
  • “Quieting the Medamah” toolkit
  • Private “Simplicity Sisterhood” community
  • 1:1 coaching session — all 3 spots already claimed

Holistic Harmony

Premium VIP · Hypopressive + Shiur

$297

8 Mondays from Oct 12 · Movement 10:45–11:30 AM · Shiur & Q&A until 1:00 PM

A complete morning of wellness and wisdom: 45 minutes of Hypopressive breathing and restorative work with a certified expert, followed directly by the shiur.

  • Everything in the Core Program
  • Weekly 45-minute Hypopressive session (10:45 AM)
  • Guidance from a certified Hypopressive expert
  • Body awareness, fascia tension release & breathing
  • Postural alignment for grounded, embodied calm
  • Direct access to the expert for your questions

Schedule & Location

Eight Mondays, October 12–November 30, in the Sanhedria area; the exact address is shared with participants. VIP movement is 10:45–11:30 AM. The shiur is 11:30 AM–12:30 PM, followed by Q&A and practical takeaways until 1:00 PM.

Core: $197 for the 8-week series. VIP: $297 for the 8-week series, including the 10:45–11:30 AM movement sessions with Yehudis Danan and the shiur. Missed the opening? You can still register. The free monthly shiur remains a separate option.

Our 14-Day Joy Guarantee

We are confident in the transformative power of this journey. If, after two weeks of attending the in-person sessions, diligently completing your worksheets, and fully participating in the community, you honestly do not see the lessons being implemented in your life, simply reach out. We will offer a full refund, no questions asked.

Frequently Asked Questions

For enrolled participants

Class Recordings & Reflections

Week 1 · Two Boys, Two Natures. Enter your class passcode to listen, review the takeaways, and share a private reflection with Esty.

Don't Let This Journey Pass You By

Imagine reaching the end of these eight weeks with more than notes: a way to notice comparison sooner, speak with more dignity, appreciate your effort, and return to Hashem through a small, honest step. That is what we are making room to practise together.

Do not wait for a quieter life to begin living with more taam. The story is unfolding week by week — and you can still be part of the conversation.

Reserve your spot in The Taam Life Journey

Eight Mondays, October 12–November 30, in Sanhedria. Shiur at 11:30 AM; VIP movement at 10:45 AM. Enrollment is still open.

Register your interest and we will be in touch to confirm your place and arrange payment. The course runs October 12–November 30; you can still join after the opening class.